1 00:00:01,733 --> 00:00:04,766 各位退休的同学同事朋友们 2 00:00:04,866 --> 00:00:06,066 记住这9集 3 00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:07,533 坚持几十年 4 00:00:07,566 --> 00:00:10,599 我们每一个人都能活成神仙 5 00:00:11,166 --> 00:00:14,866 第一集浙江杭州灵隐寺内 6 00:00:14,866 --> 00:00:18,566 有这样一副对联人生哪能多如意 7 00:00:18,566 --> 00:00:20,533 万事只求半称心 8 00:00:21,100 --> 00:00:24,400 对联语言朴实却富含哲理 9 00:00:24,866 --> 00:00:28,333 这种半称心的生活和知足常乐 10 00:00:28,533 --> 00:00:30,099 随遇而安的心态 11 00:00:30,500 --> 00:00:34,000 被林语堂先生称为中国人所发现的 12 00:00:34,066 --> 00:00:36,099 最健全的生活理想 13 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:39,333 半称心不是无奈和消极 14 00:00:39,533 --> 00:00:41,799 而是一种豁达和智慧 15 00:00:42,366 --> 00:00:44,299 自古人生最羁满 16 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:47,266 半贫半富半子安 17 00:00:47,866 --> 00:00:50,166 半命半天半机遇 18 00:00:50,666 --> 00:00:52,699 半取半舍半行善 19 00:00:53,266 --> 00:00:55,266 半聋半哑半糊涂 20 00:00:55,866 --> 00:00:57,766 半智半愚半圣贤 21 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:00,333 半人半我半自在 22 00:01:00,900 --> 00:01:02,966 半醒半醉半神仙 23 00:01:03,566 --> 00:01:05,866 半半亲半爱半苦乐 24 00:01:06,466 --> 00:01:08,599 半俗半缠半随缘 25 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:11,166 人生一半在于我 26 00:01:11,866 --> 00:01:13,899 另外一半听自然 27 00:01:14,533 --> 00:01:18,666 第二集看了那么多的人生际遇 28 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:19,500 殊不知 29 00:01:19,500 --> 00:01:23,133 仅用四个汉字即可明了整个人生 30 00:01:23,300 --> 00:01:25,800 间宾卡寅 31 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:28,666 间字能大能小 32 00:01:29,266 --> 00:01:31,533 宾字能文能武 33 00:01:32,133 --> 00:01:34,399 卡字能上能下 34 00:01:34,933 --> 00:01:37,166 隐字能屈能伸 35 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:41,300 真可谓人的一生虽复杂 36 00:01:41,933 --> 00:01:43,999 四字简单又明白 37 00:01:44,533 --> 00:01:46,733 能大能小明事态 38 00:01:47,333 --> 00:01:49,499 能文能武乃英才 39 00:01:50,100 --> 00:01:52,166 能上能下但名利 40 00:01:52,666 --> 00:01:54,933 能屈能伸福自来 41 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:58,500 第三集什么叫幸福 42 00:01:59,100 --> 00:02:00,733 白天有说有笑 43 00:02:00,933 --> 00:02:02,499 晚上睡个好觉 44 00:02:03,100 --> 00:02:04,333 什么叫智慧 45 00:02:04,933 --> 00:02:06,599 安排的事能做好 46 00:02:06,766 --> 00:02:08,566 没安排的事能想到 47 00:02:09,166 --> 00:02:10,366 什么叫情商 48 00:02:11,166 --> 00:02:12,533 说话让人喜欢 49 00:02:12,733 --> 00:02:14,366 做事让人感动 50 00:02:14,566 --> 00:02:16,199 做人让人想念 51 00:02:16,866 --> 00:02:18,333 什么叫正能量 52 00:02:18,933 --> 00:02:19,966 给人希望 53 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:21,100 给人方向 54 00:02:21,166 --> 00:02:22,266 给人力量 55 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:23,566 给人智慧 56 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:24,766 给人自信 57 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:26,000 给人快乐 58 00:02:26,500 --> 00:02:29,533 第四集心态不同 59 00:02:29,766 --> 00:02:32,799 人生的境遇便会天差地别 60 00:02:33,700 --> 00:02:37,333 快乐就是在平淡中亏欠了神奇 61 00:02:37,933 --> 00:02:41,966 幸福就是于平淡中尝出了真味 62 00:02:42,500 --> 00:02:44,733 快乐不是生活的赐予 63 00:02:44,733 --> 00:02:46,266 而是心的领悟 64 00:02:46,866 --> 00:02:49,333 幸福不是别人的馈赠 65 00:02:49,566 --> 00:02:50,933 而是心的淡然 66 00:02:51,533 --> 00:02:52,999 只有甘于平淡 67 00:02:53,166 --> 00:02:54,966 不争不执着 68 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:58,200 不计较才能感受到更多幸福 69 00:02:58,766 --> 00:03:02,733 第五集家是讲爱的地方 70 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:06,866 不可讲理家是放松的地方 71 00:03:06,966 --> 00:03:11,333 不可吵闹家是安心的归宿 72 00:03:11,333 --> 00:03:15,566 不可嚣张家是感情的寄托 73 00:03:15,700 --> 00:03:16,966 不可欺骗 74 00:03:17,566 --> 00:03:18,799 家要温暖 75 00:03:18,933 --> 00:03:22,733 而不是冷言冷语家要陪伴 76 00:03:22,866 --> 00:03:24,799 而不是亲人离散 77 00:03:25,300 --> 00:03:29,000 第6集生活不要安排的太满 78 00:03:29,266 --> 00:03:31,399 人生不要设计的太急 79 00:03:31,933 --> 00:03:33,133 不管做什么 80 00:03:33,366 --> 00:03:35,333 都要给自己留点空间 81 00:03:35,733 --> 00:03:37,933 好让自己可以从容转身 82 00:03:38,533 --> 00:03:40,466 留一点好处让别人占 83 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:42,566 留一点道路让别人走 84 00:03:42,766 --> 00:03:45,266 留一点时间让自己思考 85 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:49,133 任何时候都要记得给人生留点余地 86 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:50,666 得到时不自喜 87 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:52,366 失去时不抑郁 88 00:03:52,366 --> 00:03:53,299 得失之间 89 00:03:53,300 --> 00:03:54,566 淡定从容 90 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:58,700 第7集人之所以烦恼 91 00:03:58,866 --> 00:04:02,299 在于记忆人之所以欣慰 92 00:04:02,333 --> 00:04:05,799 在于徘徊人之所以前行 93 00:04:05,966 --> 00:04:09,399 在于感恩人之所以快乐 94 00:04:09,533 --> 00:04:12,899 在于豁达人之所以成熟 95 00:04:13,133 --> 00:04:16,699 在于看透人之所以放弃 96 00:04:17,066 --> 00:04:20,499 在于选择人之所以宽容 97 00:04:20,566 --> 00:04:24,066 在于理解人之所以为人 98 00:04:24,166 --> 00:04:27,933 在于感情人之所以充实 99 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:31,466 在于过程人之所以成功 100 00:04:31,666 --> 00:04:35,199 在于勤奋人之所以幸福 101 00:04:35,266 --> 00:04:36,399 在于知足 102 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:40,933 第8集养生不能马上让你年轻10岁 103 00:04:41,100 --> 00:04:42,500 而是过10年后 104 00:04:42,566 --> 00:04:45,299 你身边和周围的人都老了10岁 105 00:04:45,533 --> 00:04:47,733 而你还仍然是今天的样子 106 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:50,866 养生不能马上让你的病痊愈 107 00:04:50,933 --> 00:04:52,499 而是过10年后 108 00:04:52,933 --> 00:04:56,066 你身边的人或许都渐渐已离去 109 00:04:56,300 --> 00:04:58,333 而你还是今天的样子 110 00:04:58,766 --> 00:05:01,566 养生不能马上让你发财致富 111 00:05:01,700 --> 00:05:03,100 而是10年后 112 00:05:03,366 --> 00:05:05,699 身边的人都为治病破产 113 00:05:05,700 --> 00:05:07,300 到处借钱的时候 114 00:05:07,900 --> 00:05:09,066 你却衣食无忧 115 00:05:09,066 --> 00:05:10,266 逍遥自在 116 00:05:10,700 --> 00:05:15,500 第9集饮食三分荤菜七分素 117 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:19,400 吃饭三分饥饿七分饱 118 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:23,133 吃菜三分咸度七分淡 119 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:26,966 遇事三分忧虑七分欢 120 00:05:27,566 --> 00:05:29,666 外出三分坐车 121 00:05:29,666 --> 00:05:34,533 七分行健身三分娱乐七分练 122 00:05:35,133 --> 00:05:38,199 生病三分治疗七分养 123 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:42,000 穿衣三分凉意七分暖 124 00:05:42,766 --> 00:05:45,799 各位退休的同学同事朋友们 125 00:05:45,900 --> 00:05:47,133 记住这9集 126 00:05:47,266 --> 00:05:48,599 坚持几十年 127 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:51,700 我们每一个人都能活成神仙